We all want to be the alpha male.
We hear a lot about being an alpha male and how women are attracted to alpha males.
We go to workshops, we read books, and all the books say you must be an alpha male.
Being an alpha male is a myth.
You need to unlock your own inner alpha, and each person’s inner alpha is completely different from the next.
You need to find your voice. And by finding your voice, you will be able to unlock the strongest parts of your personality. This is your inner alpha.
When I first opened my inner alpha, I realized that there were situations where I was not good. And I accepted them.
For example, I’m not the best talking to women in bars. I can do it, but I don’t enjoy it and it shows.
However, I’m great to meet women on the street, at Whole Foods, coffee shops, clothing stores, elevators, airplanes, you name it.
In fact, I can start a conversation based on what is happening at the moment anywhere.
That’s what my inner voice is about: a natural environment.
Look, I worked on what was best and what I felt most comfortable with, because I realized that there are a lot of women everywhere I go.
So once you find your inner voice and the places where your inner voice resonates the loudest, that’s where you should meet women.
You see, finding your inner voice and connecting with your inner alpha is really about finding where you feel most comfortable. Then you will be able to speak with power in those situations, based on comfort and not out of fear.
If you’re a guy who just doesn’t like bars, but really likes coffee shops, why do you meet women in bars? Why are you trying to be someone you’re not, when you should perfect the art of meeting women in coffee shops?
If you are a guy who does not like coffee shops, but who loves the gym or the supermarket, then you should perfect the way to meet women in the gym and in the supermarket.
There are many women throughout the day, in everyday situations, so find the everyday situation that works for you.
The goal is not to become the supreme alpha male who dominates men and women equally wherever he goes; the goal is to cultivate the inner alpha in you and become the best version you can be.